30 years old Ukraine Kyiv
Looking for:
I’m looking for a man who’s emotionally intelligent, curious about life, and confident without being arrogant. Someone who values balance between ambition and calm, logic and laughter, words and silence. I don’t need perfection; I need sincerity, warmth, and the ability to talk about things that actually matter from art to politics to the taste of coffee after midnight.
About me:
I’m not just “trying to smile” I actively look for reasons to do it. I love analyzing the world and improving it, starting with my own surroundings. A master of planning spontaneous adventures from a last-minute trip to the Carpathians to the hunt for the best Italian gelato in Kyiv. I’m drawn to urban design, contemporary art, and everything that makes human experience richer and more beautiful. In a relationship, I’m tender but with a solid inner core I value intellectual closeness and emotional honesty above all.
Qualities that I appreciate in people the most:
I value people who have a quiet kind of confidence those who don’t need to shout to be heard. Empathy and emotional intelligence are essential for me, but so is curiosity that childlike spark that makes someone explore, ask questions, and learn. I admire people who can listen deeply, who keep their promises, and who still find time to laugh even when life gets complicated. I respect humor that’s intelligent, self-ironic, never at someone else’s expense. And I melt for kindness that’s shown in small, almost invisible gestures.
My goals for the future:
To build something meaningful not just a career, but a life filled with shared creativity, laughter, and emotional depth. I dream of creating a home where there’s always music playing, fresh flowers on the table, and someone to share morning coffee with before the city wakes up.
My travel destinations (past or future):
Mountains are my weakness I escape to the Carpathians whenever I need to breathe and reset. Once I even took a solo trip there just to watch the sunrise from Hoverla with a thermos of coffee and a sketchbook. Abroad, I’ve been to Poland, Germany, and the Netherlands each trip taught me something about balance and perspective. Berlin will always be special: I once flew there just to visit a Bauhaus design exhibition. Still on my dream list Italy, for its light and art; Morocco or Kenya, for color and rhythm; and maybe somewhere in South America, just to feel the pulse of a completely different world. The more I see, the wider my inner map becomes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about (or my dream is):
How design shapes human behavior, why some memories stay forever, and how to create things that make people feel something real. My dream is to combine art and psychology into something that helps others see beauty in small details.
My favorite movies, books, music, shows:
Movies: Her, Before Sunrise, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, and the nostalgic magic of old Woody Allen films that mix of jazz, chaos, and tender melancholy. Books: Haruki Murakami (always), Clarissa Pinkola Estés for feminine wisdom, Milan Kundera for irony and philosophy. Music: Lo-fi beats when I work, indie pop for city walks, and soft jazz when I cook late at night. Shows: Abstract: The Art of Design, Black Mirror, Chef’s Table and occasionally The Office when I need to laugh at human absurdity.
My favorite food:
I love experimenting with flavors fermented things, homemade herbal teas, roasted vegetables with pomegranate seeds, sourdough bread I bake myself. And there’s nothing better than breakfast on a balcony with honey and apricots in summer.
Pets in my life:
I don’t have pets of my own, but I often visit animal shelters, bring food, and walk dogs. It grounds me and reminds me what unconditional trust looks like.
My hobbies and what I'm good at:
Observing people, designing beautiful and functional things, collecting ideas, photography, spontaneous road trips, and turning ordinary evenings into something memorable. I’m good at making spaces feel cozy and moments feel special.
Talking about sports:
Movement means a lot to me. I practice Pilates for balance, go snowboarding or skiing every winter (and I’m still learning how not to fall too spectacularly). I love long hikes — especially in the Carpathians, where the air itself feels like freedom. I jog along the Dnipro just to clear my thoughts and watch the sunrise over the bridges.
The five things I can't live without:
Morning sunlight, good conversations, sketchbooks full of messy ideas, long walks through the city, and that quiet sense of “I’m exactly where I should be.”
You should message me if:
You’re someone who prefers depth over small talk, who notices details others miss, who’s not afraid of silence or honesty. If you believe love is both tenderness and teamwork we might have a lot to explore together.
Job:
UX/UI Researcher, focused on human-centered design
